Loneliness is experienced by everyone at one point or the other in their Life.
Loneliness is a feeling of emptiness or hollowness inside you.
Lonely When You are Hurt?
Remember the Song, Lonely by Akon
Lonely Song Lyrics
Lonely I’m so lonely
I have nobody
To call my own
I’m so lonely, I’m Mr. Lonely
I have nobody
To call my own
I’m so lonely
Yo this one here goes out to all my players out there
Ya know got to have one good girl whose always been there
Like ya know took all the bullshit
Then one day she can’t take it no more and decides to leave
I woke up in the middle of the night
And I noticed my girl wasn’t by my side
Coulda sworn I was dreamin’, for her I was feenin’
So I hadda take a little ride
Backtracking ova these few years
Tryna figure out what I do to make it go bad
Cause ever since my girl left me
My whole left life came crashin’
I’m so lonely (so lonely)
I’m Mr. Lonely (Mr. Lonely)
I have nobody (I have nobody)
To call my own (to call my own) girl
I know Loneliness Hurts!!!
It can hit you at any age.
Loneliness and being Alone is a different state of emotions.
It’s Different from choosing to be ‘Alone’ and Enjoying one’s ‘Own Company’.
Loneliness may creep in after a Break-up or Because you are in a new city or country.
And Loss of a partner or a family member whom you were emotionally very attached.
Whatever may have caused your feeling of Loneliness, we still have a way to come out of it, sooner the better.
If not dealt with Loneliness issues it can become very detrimental to your mental, emotional and physical wellbeing.
Good news is Loneliness is just a feeling, not a Fact! ☺
Recognize The Feelings and Accept It
To stop feeling lonely, we first must accept that we are feeling lonely.
Sometimes admitting that to ourselves is difficult.
Journal in a diary,
Express it as an Imaginary letter to Self
Colouring Your Emotions on a Canvas
Pour it as a Poem
Script a Song
Share with a Counsellor
Witnessing Emotions process can enable much more in resolving it.
Expressing our feelings might lead us to discover that what we are feeling is related to a number of things which might be connected to our feelings of Loneliness, including Rejection, Loss, Sadness, Anger, and Frustration.
We might be able to begin to see where these feelings are coming from and how are they connected to in our lives.
As we begin to see the connections we will be more able to begin to make changes.
Let’s Find a way
How To Overcome Loneliness:-
Reach out!!!… Dating Sites are not the only way to Find New Friends or Lover 😉
- Get a Grip Over Your Emotions through Positive Self Talk
- Explore Yourself through Dance Workshops in Town
- Join New Clubs
- Hit the Gym
- Support as a Volunteer for an NGO
- Find New Interest Groups on Meetup.com
- Photography Workshop can Be Fun
- Get a Makeover and Go Partying
- Get in Touch with Lost Friends
- Be Compassionate Reach out to Orphanage
- Let Old Homes be Your Extended Family
- Book a Group Travel Package
- Learn Some New Skills
- Skill with New Language
- Play a Musical Instrument Let Music Speak to You.
- Create Your Meetup Group or Facebook Group
- Get a Pet or Adopt a Street Kitten or Pup
- Morning Jog can Be Fun to Kick Start Your Day!
- Unleash Your Talent Inspire Others!
- Sport a Sport!~Swimming Badminton Tennis Golf
Make Therapist your Secret Friend.
Counseling is Healthy and Proactive Approach to overcome Self-Defeating Behaviors that exacerbate loneliness.
With the Support of a Therapist, you can change your Thinking and Relationship Patterns and Achieve the Life you Desire!
Life is Full of Choices, A Playground to Play and Life is Abundantly at Your Service!
New Study on Mental Conditions of Lonely Persons
New Study Says, Living alone may Increase the Risk of Mental Disorder.
To investigate, scientists from the University of Versailles Saint-Quentin-en-Yvelines in France analyzed data from 20,503 adults, ages 16–74, living in England. The data came from three National Psychiatric Morbidity Surveys that experts conducted in 1993, 2000, and 2007.